Mila I might come from the thoughts of a different camp. Is your goal to bring your h home or go separate ways? By telling him who he needs to bill will come across controlling.

It's not right, but what are you trying to accomplish? Me personally would let it go. You can't reason with someone in MLC. He will NOT see it your way. It will only go to show him exactly why he moved out to begin with.

Be his friend and love him from a far, but you don't need to give advice or listen to him in regards to his affairs with ow if that makes sense. He seems to confide in you and wants to share that side of his life with you. I wouldn't want to be in the middle of that.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"