How (and who) to expose if OP is not married

[4luv]

I got the book tonight "not just friends". Very good book so far from what I have read.

I have to report that I broke NC today. The thing is that my NC was done by accident. Quick Update: after talking to husband several times on Friday, I told him I would talk to him later. I went out Friday night and didn't hear from husband. No phone call or text from husband on Saturday and then a quick call from husband on Sunday after I missed three of his original calls on Sunday. He asked about our son and then said I will talk to yall later. So after not hearing from husband again all day today I called him. I know, I know...

When he answered the conversation is below:

M: hey, how are you.
H: Good, i guess.
M: I was just cheking on you.
H: well I haven't heard from you in two days!!
M: Same for you
H: you said I will talk to you later and I never heard from you so I was like, F it then.
M: I thought you were going to call me back.
H: I never said that...I called you yesterday and you rushed me off the phone and said you would talk to me later.
M: oh, misunderstanding because I thought you said you were calling me back. oh well, I also thought that you were just taking some time to yourself.
H: LOL...you are funny. that is what you thought?
M: yes but dang can't believe that you were just not going to call if I didn't call you back
H: nope...laughing
H: Well, I have to go...I am on a date.
M: silence
H: laughing...hello 4luv
M: that is not funny
H: I am serious...I am on a date. I am trying to be honest with you
M: Well I don't believe you.
H: I am telling you the truth.
M: Well that is very hurtful.
H: laughing...really, that is hurtful to you...still laughing.
M: yes. whatever. bye.
H: okay, bye.

This must be the day of really bad screw ups. I can't read my husband anymore. I KNOW that he flipped the script on me. My husband is sooo manipulative that I have to stay 3 steps ahead of him. He has admitted to being manipulative and says that he looks at everything as a game! How can I possibly win against someone like that. This is a game to him and I just made a wrong move. However, I believe that if I would have stayed not contacting him that was also a game and he would have twisted it either way....HELP!! These mind games that my husband plays are one of the biggest reasons in my stitch that I had to move out.