We're trying timeouts and they help some. But H doesn't like to reschedule once he takes one and he sometimes likes to take one within 10 minutes of any conversation beginning even though no voices are raised because he says he has gotten too stressed. You're supposed to reschedule, and if you don't that's a problem because it's not supposed to be how it works. Yet we're not "piecing" so he doesn't have to. It leaves me feeling like nothing will ever get discussed. But that's probably just my current sitch, not the method. I think you will get yelled at less if your H adopts timeouts, but you will struggle with being left sitting there with your issue feeling rejected and unheard so you will have to work on that from your end.
