Thank you! I think this is what I am scared of the most, making the decision myself. I think you are correct that he is going to make me make the decision, but this time I am not going to. He has to move out so he either moves here or his parents. Making him make the decision is great for me because I have always been forced to make the decision and then months or years later get blamed for being controlling when he won't make a decision...not this time. This time he has to make a decision and I feel good about it.

I am only dreading in this week being drawn out, but otherwise I think I am ok.

Still nothing from H.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89