Trust me...I'm detached.. been that way for over a year now. I just thought if she was really earnest in trying; I'd give her a shot. I'm a long way off from ever asking her to move back in. I like my time away from her; but if she can do the REAL work to get better and be a proper W, I'm willing to do it for our kids. If we didn't have kids...none of y'all would even be reading this.
FT was her idea; I went along to give her a chance to show her meddle. She ain't showing too much. I know I can't fix her; ain't trying. But if she's trying; I'll observe but not for long. I'm not seeing much of a change so far. Just a lot of confusion and reluctance to let go of baby daddy. So I'm a little encouraged at the thought of knowing that I will not have to deal with that "personality" in my life everyday.
Grit..I'll check ya out over there. I still don't believe your W is in MLC...I think it's way deeper than that bro. But maybe they can help you...and, of course, I could be wrong and she is in MLC. I'm pulling for ya!
