That's interesting... 4luv's counsellor told HER that all they needed was one person at 100% and the other could be at 1% or 2% and that would be good enough
it sounds like YOURS is saying it must be 100 - 100 or its no go lol
These counsellors frighten me sometimes
But I really don't think tha'ts the kind of question you hit someone with WHILE your SPOUSE is THERE in teh ROOM is it?
I really think putting the spouse in teh room when questions like that are asked is a bad idea.. but what do I know. lol
