1. I would NOT invite her to come along to shop.. that is pursuit.. just TELL her what YOU are doing.. if SHE wants to GO she will TELL you.. stop chasing her
2. You survived the day.. congrats!
3. Tell her you will be going to the wedding. Do NOT ask her what she will be diong, do NOT invite her, do NOT tell her she's welcome to go with you.. YOU just tell her what YOU plan on doing and THat is ALL you SAY.
If she tells you she doesnt' have a dress or sometthing, THEN you offer something constructive like "I am sure you can find something great if you went to shop for one"... do NOT invite yourself along OR ANYTHING like that.. just be supoprtive
do NOT try to SQUEEZE yourself into her LIFE at ALL.. she will invite you in when SHE is ready
