Oh ya mb28 a few points :

1. Do NOT be at HOME when you send this
2. Do NOT be ALONE when you send this - be with a friend
3. Do NOT have your PHONE ON - surrender the phone to a frined

Your H WILL REACT TO THIS.. he WILL CALL YOU.. he WILL PURSUE.. this is a LOT of PRESSURE to throw at him....

You need to PROTECT yourself from the RESPONSE...

PLAN AHEAD.. if you ARE giong to do a no contact, you need to PROTECT yourself, that means stay with a friend for a few weeks so you CAN'T be pressured by him.. he CAN affect you, you have made that clear, you cannot stick to this NC letter if you stay at home

AT least I don't think its feasible.. so you need to PLAN for this.. you need to prepare to protect yourself from him pursuing you