Hi JTB maybe he does want to talk but is waiting for me to ask questions regarding affair etc, if i have anything on my mind RE: if hes late or doesnt answer my text/call i usually ask why he ignored me or was late, the other night he went to a friends and i didnt bother to ring so he rung me and said im just letting you know im still at so and so's i could hear is friend in the background he said i didnt want you worrying he also said thought you might have checked up on me by now, because of everything i dont know whats the truth anymore. I have been and read some of the piecing threads and alot of the questions i have going through my head are actually pointed out on there so at least its normal in some way thankyou for replying im sure il have plenty more but thankyou