NM, trust your instincts. If the limbo isn't driving you nuts, then it shouldn't be driving us nuts. Let's find out what's brewing. You're right that there have been changes and I think that you are right to be patient and figure out what they mean, because it's not clear yet. You have a deadline and I think that's wise. That's exactly what my IC just recommended for me - to pick my own deadline and stick to it. And you are making changes...your H will pick up on them, subconsciously at least. Hugs!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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