I wouldn't have taken the shampoo or kept giving him schedule times. You are rescuing him from his choices. He needs to feel those choices if anything is ever going to change. Just so you know that doesn't mean you aren't nice, it is just a 180. Changing the way things are done.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory