I was just reading some of your posts and I feel your pain. Sorry to see you in this situation, it sucks, I know!
My current sit is different from your but similar in a lot of ways. My WAW has been in our rental for almost 11 months. I have read the DB Book. Tried lots of diff things to save this, got one of the consolers, (Joanne, she is very, very good, by the way! - Thank you Joanne!) made lots of changes but nothing really changes between me and the WAW. She is coming over in a few hours to "Talk" , which translates to the "I want a divorce, I cant do this anymore" talk. Not sure how to handle it but I think I will try and just agree with her this time and see how she reacts.
I, like you, am tired, I want this to work but am just not feeling the love. She says I have not changed ( not true) it is just that when she left she was so pissed off, she did not want to see any change or really put any effort into saving this. A typical sign of a WAW . Wanted to stop going to a MC because this woman wanted to keep us together. Now she just talks to people that tell her what she wants to hear and validate her crappy actions over the last year. (Probably much like your W)
Keep us posted, sounds like you guys are done and that you are being strong! Good for you, spend some time and money on YOU! You will feel great!
I will keep you posted on my sit - I think I will just agreed with her today!
NSD
Me 47 WAW 48 No Kids M-20y T-24y B#1 2-20-09 B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907
