Allen just saw your last post and I think the point in C needs to be added.
Divorce is not an option for me. I want the best for our children and divorce will hurt our children.
I know we have a marriage worth saving, and I would really like us to try together. Your affair is hurting both of us and our children and it is not heatlhy. This is very hurtful to me and I think it's best that we don't have any contact of any kind until you end your affair. Any and all contact must be through your mom until you end your affair."
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo