Hi JTB, he was remorseful just before he came home and at times he looks like he wants to talk or is in deep thought but when i ask if he is ok he pauses as if he wants to say something but then doesnt. i dont ask questions about us i let him initiate these convos in fact i try to let him make the first move with anything concerning our relationship, we have talked about going on holiday etc and we do enjoy ourselves when we go out, do i continue to let him open up or should i prompt him or just let it take it its course xxx