My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

dburt, so glad you made it to the other side. That really is great.

I feel my husband is going to take my going dark/GAL/ignoring him and throw it in my face. I reason what may happen is that he will tell me he had to file for divorce because I ignored him. I'll just have to wait and see if he actually does finally follow through and file. I hope awest is right that he would have already done it if he was going to.

I think he is just using this time away to talk/see with the OW. Again pisses me off and I am just venting again, but I am just so sick and tired of this. I really truly am beginning to imagine how great our lives could be together or.....apart. I just can't imagine that his depressive roller coaster to reality won't come crashing down again and he will be back at my door. Maybe he won't because he is really stuborn. On the other hand he is really emotioinally needy. Maybe he will come to realize that the OW doesn't really have a need for him in her life once she does make the move to the other side of the country. I don't know what will bring him off the roller coaster again. I do know that I need to obviously handle it completely different than I did in the past.

Anyone know of any good books on communication? Apparently I am a bad communicator and just talk about stupid bull&$*#..... seriously that is what he told me.