thanks maynard2121 I also feel like either packing all the rest of his stuff that is here and sending it to his moms or start packing me and the kids up and getting my own place. I already told H he could have the house if he files. I said he could move in and me and the kids would move out. He said he would take my name of the house and let it forclose so it didn't ruin my credit.
He also told me today "You need to stop trying to fix it, we need to just let go and see what happens". Right now I hate him!!!!
Don't hate him, hate the affair OK?
You need to STOP ENABLING his affair.. when you talk negative, he FEEDS off that like a SPONGE
He is a NEGATIVE ENERGY SPONGE right now.. you sqeeze him and all you will get is negative energy, and he will soak up all YOU have to give him too
