thanks maynard2121
I also feel like either packing all the rest of his stuff that is here and sending it to his moms or start packing me and the kids up and getting my own place. I already told H he could have the house if he files. I said he could move in and me and the kids would move out. He said he would take my name of the house and let it forclose so it didn't ruin my credit.

He also told me today "You need to stop trying to fix it, we need to just let go and see what happens". Right now I hate him!!!!


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10