Thanks Puppy. He has agreed to NC..it really is a matter of how long it lasts. We already did the No Contact letter when I first learned of his A. Any ideas this time around? The No Contact letter seems like a big joke at this point..sadly enough.
I need to call the MC back tonight...and hold off until he expresses interest and initiates...as pearlharbr suggested. How long does NC have to be continuous for MC to start? I am pretty much dark with him right now...so not sure how to ask for transparency. How do I ask for transparency without looking like 'mom' or 'cop'? I love the phrase Puppy used- you want commitment not compliance...but how do I measure commitment without requesting full transparency...which feels like asking for compliance?? Rambling..but does this make any sense?
