True piecing means you GET to have the occasional R talk. They should be WILLING to have it, just not dancing for joy about it. You keep it logical and no guilt or heavy emotion burden and you should be good.
Not an R talk every day or 2-5 times a week, but every now and then.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK