Also, i mentioend this to mb28 yesterday I think... do NOT accept your husband back no questions asked, that will NOT end well, he will just start another affair and move out again...

He MUST change, and family therapy is where that happens...

He MAY try to sneak back into your life with a free pass, charming his way back in because he may sense you miss him.

I do NOT reccomend you do that... He MUST have a conditional return and OWN his mistakes before he comes through the door.