HUSBAND : Hey, I am broke and this didn't turn out well. I am coming home.
WIFE : Well, you are not welcome here until OW is GONE and your affair is OVER. Your return here is on condition that you attend family therapy with a RFT privately and with me in private sessions as well. Your affair is NOT welcome in this home... There are CHILDREN here and i will NOT expose them to that environment.
HUSBANd : I just told you have no money, i have no home.. what do you expect me to do?
WIFE : END your AFFAIR - COMPLETELY - NO CONTACT with her EVER AGAIN - You are a PARENT NOW and you should be protecting yoru chidlren, not bringing infidelity into your marriage and putting their family in crisis. What do I expect you to do? I expect you to be an adult like i am. I expect you to be a father to your children. That's what your children need from their father - love and safety - not lies and distance. When you are done playing truth games you can giev my friend a call and discuss this with HER, I am NOT contacting you again.
HUSBAND : I am broke
WIFE : Your children are emotionally broke. They have NO FATEHR they can respect.
CLICK
SOmething like that.
It's daring, I know, but he has children there, they are MISSING a father, it may be time to get tough...
It's your call how you play this, I can only give you suggestions.
