Hi thankyou JTB think what i meant to say was he doesnt really show any remorse as yet??? ive read the way they treat the spouse throughout MLC that once the fogs lifts they cant believe how selfish they were , hes not really mentioned any of it, at times hes sent messages saying oh why did i get myself in this mess and at times he seems quite depressed the next day he seems/appears happy. He does say he loves me and we are talking more about the future, the eye contact is back and he does tell me where hes going and so on. (not sure if its because of the affair but dont trust him as yet)im still detaching but finding it hard now were back living together, im scared that i will be hurt again but dont want to feel as though im pushing him away??? hope that makes sense xxx

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