Thanks for the replies. I wanted an outsiders take on what happened, as my W's response was not something I'd heard from her before. But there were some subtleties in the interaction that I didn't note, so without seeing facial expressions and tone of voice it is to be expected that there would be disagreement on what it meant.
My W did give me a bit of a grin as I moved toward her, and she did not back away in disgust or anything. Her voice was not angry or irritated. When I noted she said "sorree" the misspelling was representing how it sounded, almost like her beating me to the TV remote and me saying "aw, I wanted to pick the show we watched". Not quite that trivial or teasing, but also not a "slam the door this is a non-negotiable position," either.
I know this may be making a big deal out of something that maybe was nothing. But Knittedscarf I hear what you are saying.
And Greek, that is a good suggestion. Since it was an unusual comment, I think it does warrant getting some explanation on her part.
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