Yes, I remember both you and your H. It is likely he will see your post here. Which was your preferred way of communicating with him at the time. So that much has not changed.
From what I have heard, he picked up the pieces of his life and has found happiness again. And you say that you have too. We cannot have it all in life. At some point we all have to make our choices. It is good when those choices can lead to both people being happy again.
