Give yourself a reasonable deadline to reconsider your options, let stuff just "be" for awhile, be YOU, not the you that MIGHT affect WAH
And, take good notes. Take the pressure off of "the prize".
You are a superb catch! Have your fun, be you, enjoy that little guy, and re-evaluate then! THIS is a terrible distraction...
I'm afraid you're going to end up like me (at the end of 2009), robotic(esque), "voice" paralyzed by NOT speaking up about R for almost a year, and suddenly fearful of a a negative response.
I'll talk to you in the alt, but GNO has been guiding me a bit, and it's a start, that's starting to look up.
HUGS
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
