TBL, it sounds like an amazing experience. Wow, 30 other couples. I think the fact that 28 of the 30 couples were willing to work on their M by the end of the weekend speaks for itself. Truly amazing indeed.
I would like to convince my W to go. Yes, 19 years is a long time. I'll keep trying. My concern is exactly what OTMT says that W could see it as "been there, done that and I tried" type of scenario. Are the counseling couples very convincing that the weekend is about the here and now and not the past?
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch
