Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[4luv]

awww...no worries newmama. I understand how we all have to do things on our own time. I probably should have moved out and back with my parents A LONG TIME AGO. As I look back I can say that I should've moved out sooner due to some of husbands' behavior but I wasn't ready. I moved when I felt good about it and now I don't have any regrets because I did it on my time, when I was comfortable with the possibility that me moving might mean that it was one step closer to divorce. Don't want divorce but it had to sink in FOR ME that my current situation wasn't going anywhere.

BTW, my son turns 1 in mid-April :-) We both had very eventful years in 2009 :-)