Within the last 24 hours I've signed a lease and filed for divorce. I'm supposed to wait until the 10th but have begun moving now. My son is nervous.

I feel sad, but good.

My wife deserves the lifestyle that she is accustomed to. This is what I tell myself when I start to feel sorry for her. She alternates between crying/moping and pretending she's glad to be rid of me. I'm sure it's confusing for all of us.

This will probably be my last post on this forum for a while. Thanks to everyone who responded. I wish all of you well. This board was a catalyst for me finding a better life, and while I don't see my marriage being saved, I am grateful for second chances.

Peace,

CV_95

M:40
W:40
2 teenagers
ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010
soon to be walking away
my situation