OH...also forgot that my dad has always had his doubts about husband even while we were dating. My dad always said that if a man doesn't treat you better or as well as I treat you then dump him...lol. My dad's complaints about husband were minor in my mind at the time (example, dad didn't like the fact that husband whispered to me in front of him). My dad feels like no man should whisper in front of another man.

My dad never said anything against me dating husband though because I was grown and I would basically shut him out when he tried to say something negative. My dad eventually came around and said that he was happy to give me away at the wedding to my husband and welcomed the idea of finally having a son. Now my dad is saying that husband is a good guy but that he has a lt of things to deal with and will take a VERY long time before he is ready to be in a healthy relationship...this is why I sometimes don't like talking to my dad. He offers very little hope and seems to just want me to stop thinking about husband and keeps telling me that I am going to have even bigger issues if I stay thinking about husband.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo