Thanks for the things to think about. After M of 24 years I am scared to death to get back out there and hearing your perspectives really helps me. There is a woman at work who just recently came on board and I would love to just have someone to do things with as friends. Like you said Talia, someone who dosn't know all the BS and background. Someone new with a fresh perspective that i can get to know slowly at my pace. The problem is, how do I even ask her to do things as friends? Wouldn't she perceive this as odd/strange? I would be as honest as I could and tell her that th divorce isn't final and that I'm not ready to date or start an R but that I would like to get to know her better as a friend and to do things with.
Does this sound OK to you?
Thanks,
Ken
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
