yikes I sounded really defensive. Sorry. I do need to hear all opinions.

Now as for doing something different I kind of have been and won't share but Flowmom knows!

Let's just say I have an innocent distraction!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004