You are correct Allen and maynard...I guess I was "temperature" checking with the apology...secretly hoping that husband wouldn't mind. I will ask my dad about the "fog" for other addicts. Its weird that I have never really talked to my dad about his profession. We have a MOUNTAIN of books around the house on addictions/therapy (CBT, etc.) and I have never had any interest in reading them :-(
BTW, this will make you laugh, my mom was also a counselor for troubled teens/young woman but that was before I was born. She is now a social worker at a hospital and counsels patients and their families during their medical crisis :-) No wonder I turned the complete opposite of both of them...LOL. I am in a house of counselors....HELP...LOL!!!
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo