OP-when I went for my physical in Jan....she talked to me about menopause and how I was feeling and I told her about H and I. I know it wouldn't hurt to explore that more! Thanks!

HB-you have such a way with words! I figured it would be ok to allow myself a cry! I think it helped to get the wallpaper off a little quicker actually!!! I think it is good that you and your H got your "changes" over and done!

When I was going thru cancer, I got a couple of those Willow Tree angels from friends, one of the says HEALING and the other one is HOPE!!! I keep both of those words in my mind at all times!

As for being a strong lady! If someone had asked me to describe myself, that would not have been a word I would have thought of myself as. The last 2 1/2 years have really tested that and I guess I am stronger than I know! I HAVE to be! I have 2 kids that are depending on me, pretty much just me! I wonder if I didn't have them to think about how strong I would be.

I have to report than another day has gone by with nothing in the mail from H's lawyer!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing