This is a quote from one of HB's Sermons. (see below) Really very helpful to us New to all of this. However, raises a question for me...
Like us LBS's learning to detach and in doing so realizing we too are on a Journey to change. In reading below it shows that if we were to hook up with someone else right away this would cause us to 'STOP' our Journey based on feeling like we were wanted the 'way we are right now'....
Is this NOT what happens to our MLC'ers who have A or go to OW/OM? Do they not get the same thing from that OW/OM being interested in them just as they ARE...and their Journey Stops? Maybe I am confused and while they are in this Stage with the OW/OM, it is Replay and during this Stage, there are no changes being made?
HB's Quote "Reconnecting with our H would not end our journey because they are the reason we are on it and changes need to be made to continue on with them. We cannot go back to the way things were, the old M is dead. If we were to hook up with someone else, they would be wanting us for who we are now and we would not feel the need to change/grow and we wouldn't. Thus ending our journey. In fact to find someone right now and hook up with them would validate in our minds that we don't need to make any changes because we are "wanted" by someone just the way we are."
