Please listen to G. Your husband is trying to reconnect. I am not minimizing your hurt...but your husband hurts also. Two hurt people in a marriage. You are waiting for him to SHOW true remorse. your idea of remorse and his idea can be COMPLETELY different. I think it would be beneficial for you both to go to a GOOD FAMILY THERAPIST because by reading your posts it seems as their is a solid foundation but you BOTH have to LEARN how to forgive and COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
