Mind - I just didn't answer because I didn't feel he needed to know. Besides, isn't he the one who said, "Luv I don't care get that through your head" so if he doesn't care he shouldn't ask.

I am not trying to be mysterious I just wanted the one day to be away and not have to answer to anyone - like he does. I won't be doing that again - I just did it to make a point - point taken - it bothered him - my goal accomplished.

G - you tend to give Mr Luv too much credit. I must say I do not believe he is trying to reconnect. I am not going to try and read into it I'm just going to keep doing what I've been doing - being nice but distant and living for me!

I would need to see true remorse for what he's done. I just don't see that happening. If it does I'd be more than happy to work on my marriage and forgive him. If he thinks we are going to continue in this limbo "luvless" marriage I REFUSE.

I know I have some serious thinking to do....


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10