Lost - I am considering asking her to leave the house. I doubt she will but at a minimum I may need to start setting some boundaries. I cannot continue to sleep with someone who is having a relationship with someone else. I will not do anything rash but I am considering it.

In terms of separating the bills at this time I was advised against doing that. She does not want to move but I am too am not leaving so we may be at a stalemate.


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