to add to Jack's great post, there are an swful lot of success stories...in terms of personal successes

KSChick
Aud
Cinders
FriendlyOne
Lissie
BaseballAnnie
and
well

there is me!!! smile

We are all living testimonies to the advice of work on yourself and you will be a success no matter what the outcome of your marriage

We are better, stronger, braver, more at peace, smarter, wiser and more grateful

there is great successes to be found if you are willing to go the distance