I'm here...by the grace of God.

[kat727]

If you could look past both of your "hurts" that you inflicted on each other... It really doesn't have to be tit-for-tat. Not about I am doing this better than he is.

Just look at yourself, where you want your marriage to be and start off walking. You could drive yourself crazy with what he would do, all you can control is what you can do.

I am sure you already know that but it is sometimes good to hear again. If I am overstepping let me know. I just want to offer support.

kat