You are absolutely right about my father being in parenting mode right now. Sadly, I have been far too emotional and counter-productive in the way I've handled things. I do, however, not want him to dictate where I go from here.
That being said- I do need to establish control in my life- something I have had for many years now, but have not kept my impulse in check due to poor coping skills in this sitch.
As for the one way conversation- not sure what you mean, but hopefully I will find myself having it.
