Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[flowmom]

I wonder what would happen if you acted like you've started a very discreet R that is taking up your time and making you less available to him. Suddenly there aren't any leftovers because someone else is eating his dinner! You're distracted and can't focus on your WH. You're getting texts from someone else. Flowers occasionally appear.

Just brainstorming here. Confused=good. Comfortable=not necessarily what you want to continue for much longer. But what do I know??