W officially in R w/ OM-

[chatterbug]

Maynard. Perhaps one of the journeys you are undertaking is growing up and becoming a man. As you gain more and more control of your life you will accept and take on more responsibilities. You will know that when you made a mistake that you can state that you were wrong and correct the issue and learn from it.

This will change the dynamics in your relationship with your father.

I am going to recommend that you begin to treat this relationship as a Man to Man relationship and start to show him actions instead of words. They see their child hurting and not advancing so they act like parents to a child. It is natural.

The money issue. Offer your advice to your dad on his choices then end the conversation that you leave it in his capable hands to handle.

I would also recommend that you take everything she is moving out and move it into the garage. That way it can be taken from there and not from the house.

It will be a difficult day. Ground yourself. And you will be tested. You will end up alone for a few minutes. It is at this brief seconds in that you will have to make a choice.

The question is very simple.

Am I in control of my life?

IF your answer is NO. Then you know that this is your only purpose in life. Control.

If your answer is Yes. Then begin then to control your life, right at that moment. You will have the most important one way conversation that you have ever had. And the first foundation in your new life.

This is what is coming up Maynard. There is nothing you can do to prepare for this moment except clean your head and exercise. Make sure you exercise before she arrives. Feed off that good workout of the body on your soul.