Lotus...Allen did encourage OIN to listen to his wife, just not to pursue conversation. OIN's wife is on edge and the tiniest bit of pursuit will push her further away. This happened with me and my husband while we were still living together.
Thanks 4luv, I was goign to comment on that but you beat me to it.
The OTHER conern here is there is an affair brewing, 4luv I think you as much as anyone on this forum can attest that OIN being WARM during an affair is NOT going to bring his wife back. lol
I dont know HOW many people here have tried that and it just made things worse...
