I kind of agree with WhatNow. I can see how husband might be starting to get comfortable. Are you ready for NC...similar to what Allen suggested for mb28. Arrange to have a babysitter and have your husband take the baby with him instead of lingering at your house. He has the best of both worlds right now. Its your call though because I know how difficult it is with a young baby.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo