WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

I've decided that nothing has changed as far as I am concerned.

I don't think he filed for D.. he couldn't last time he tried to without the separation agreement or custody docs completed.. so I don't think that's changed.

He may have discovered that to file for custody now in my province you have to provide a plan for how you will raise the children and in special needs' cases, which specialists are involved. H hasn't a clue on that as I have done everything to date for our son.

I knew he intended to move to the US... I think seeing it in black and white threw me..

I didn't think OW would move to Canada, but I'm not sure she actually will go through with it... She'd have to sell her house, leave her sons (though they are grown) in the US, her job..

I don't think his finding a job in the US will be as easy as he thinks.. especially without a work visa or green card..

And working in Canada for her would be easier, but still maybe not as easy as they are imagining...

It still sucks that she is still in the picture... I am sorely tempted to give in to my baser instincts and make her life a living h3ll in many ways... but I won't.. cuz despite everything I have been through in my life, I've never taken the easy route, and that would be too easy...

My H is very persuasive, charming and manipulative right now.. the fact that she's putting up with his chit shows that..