My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I know I cannot control him. Although part of me thinks he wants me to shake him and wake him up. A couple of months ago I told him that I couldn't tell him what to do and never could. He laughed and said that I always could tell him and he just sort of stared at me like he was waiting for me to tell him again.... anyway, enough. Now I am going to just that and act "as if".

Are you really together with your wife again after being divorced? I do think we can forgive and forget for periods of time but you never forget completely. My husband would not agree with this...he is again looking for reasons on why we should be divorced.