Going dark does help. The more time away from ex the clearer I see the situation and those emotions don't cloud my judgement. My ex is planning another vacation with OW and my kids. He just came back from a cruise with her. It is endless. If he has credit, he travels.
We just have to accept the fate we have and do the best with it. I know that eventually sin has to catch up to the sinner. I will just watch from a distance as I grow stronger and more independent each day.
Take care
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
