Got an idea for you, pigskin...rather than asking truly random girls on this board, why not pick up the phone and say something along the lines of: "I really want to understand you better. Would you please say that bit about being a random girl differently so that I will understand? I don't want to be the cause of uncomfortable feelings for you and so understanding this incident better will help me with that."
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08