Time to act "as if" and getting a life for yourself. You cannot control him or his actions or anything else about him, only control what you can control and that is yourself.
Hey, my wife and I are together and happy. Now about 14 months after D-day. But hey, I still taste that bitterness every now and then that she would threaten my family. I can forgive however, and I have, but I will never forget it.
