Hey thanks for checking out my thread. I wasn't talking about R's in general, I was speaking specifically of my previous break-ups. Ironicly, you are right- after those break-ups, we got back together eventually.
You are correct that we have all done things wrong in our sitches. My biggest problem is the fact that I was rarely able to keep DB-ing very well. I was too emotional and panicky. That said- i'm still DB-ing, and learning for past mistakes.
I appreciate your response and sorry if it seemed like I was making a generalization. I appreciate your feedback.,